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Thank You Anger!

It was one of those days…I woke up on the “wrong side of the bed” and could tell there was a part of me that felt extremely vulnerable. Good time to write this monthly column on transforming anger with “Infinite Love & Gratitude!”

Anger has many destructive consequences that are experienced both internally on a psychological and physical level and externally in our relationships, jobs, and our ability to live life passionately. Some of us experience it daily, while others hold on to it for years at a time, leading to a life of victimization, regret, and fear. Over time anger can become self-destructive, ruining relationships, and eventually diminishing physical health.

This is not to say anger is always a bad thing -- anger is a natural part of living; it is a signal that something is wrong and is calling for your attention. Anger evokes that well-known "fight, fright, or flight" response, preparing us to defend ourselves physically and psychologically. Back when anger corresponded to real threats, this response could be lifesaving, but today it pushes your body and behavior into an overdrive mode that is almost always unnecessary…road rage, addiction, spousal and child abuse are to name but a few.

When you become angry the hormones adrenaline and cortisol are released, causing your heart rate and blood pressure to increase. Also, your muscles get tense, your digestive processes stop and certain brain centers are triggered, which alters your brain chemistry. In the long run, and sometimes even short term, this automatic response to anger can lead to a variety of health challenges such as:

Headaches • Sugar cravings • Problems with digestion • Insomnia • Increased anxiety • Depression • High blood pressure • Skin problems, such as eczema • Heart attack • Stroke

Not only that, but anger can lead to other negative emotions like bitterness, hopelessness, futility and overall sadness. Let’s face it; it’s hard to have a good time if you’re holding on to anger.

So the obvious answer here is: let the anger go. However, before we are able to let something go, we have to be aware of what and why we are holding onto it in the first place. This is easier said than done, of course, and while the following anger management tools and strategies may not guarantee that your life will become suddenly anger-free, they will certainly help you deal with the anger that does come along in a healthier, proactive way.

The LifeLine Technique™

My favorite here is The LifeLine Technique™, which I commonly use in my practice to help patients deal with all kinds of negative emotions. The process is simple that anyone can learn how to do. It involves using the sign language hand mode of “I Love You” while semantically evoking the words “Infinite Love & Gratitude” while connecting to a stressful experience, in this case, anger. It uses The LifeLine Technique Flowchart™ to help release and interpret the subconscious story to why your life is expressing itself with anger. While this may sound unusual, it works to clear the "holding pattern" -- the subconscious emotional block behind anger, thus restoring balance within the body or a person’s life.

Relaxation

If you feel anger starting to take over, simply do your best to relax so you can dissuade the negative feelings. This doesn’t mean that you should ignore your feelings. Take a step back and observe the experience you are having. Being conscious of an experience in and of itself, begins the healing process. Ask these questions to put yourself in the observation mode. Is this emotion of anger justified? If you determine that it is, give yourself a moment to feel hurt, frustrated or annoyed.

Then use these four simple steps to help you transform the anger: 1) immediately say, “Thank you, Infinite Love & Gratitude” five times to yourself; 2) take five slow, deep breathes; 3) then drink 8 to 12 ounces of water; 4) return to saying, “Thank you, Infinite Love & Gratitude” 5 more times.

Notice how you feel after doing these simple steps. The effects are immediate and will immediately transform the experience that was creating anger.

Empathize

Be aware that anger is a language your life and body are using to help you reconnect to a part of yourself that you otherwise you would never be able to connect to. With this view, be grateful for the opportunity of anger and do your best to view an angry situation from another person’s point of view. Looking at things from a different perspective may make it easier to understand why the situation is occurring in the first place, and it may help you to calm down if you come up with a reasonable explanation.

Exercise

Physical activity is a great way to reduce angry feelings. It is said that, “Emotions transform energy. Energy creates movement, and movement is the essence of life.” If you are in a place where you are unable to break the bonds of anger, exercise can be a great emotional catalyst. It gives you a chance to focus your mind on something else and once your body is hard at work you will be less likely to obsess over angry feelings.

Vigorous activities such as running and kickboxing are healthy ways to release angry energy that has built up. Follow the intense portion of your workout with something soothing, such as meditation or yoga, to help you to relax and center yourself.

Stay Away From Artificial Stimulants

Stimulants like sugar, caffeine, and nicotine speed up the nervous and cardiovascular systems, which can add to the symptoms of anger. If you have recurrent problems with anger, staying away from these items can help. Focus on a healthy eating program that helps to restore your blood sugar metabolism. Anger is often a sign that you have reactive functional hypoglycemia. The body creates an adrenal response of anger as a means to raise the blood sugar levels.

Realize that anger is a symptom just like fatigue, headaches, and a common cold. It is your body’s way of saying that you are out of balance. This is the first step to recognizing that anger does not define who you are…it is an experience that you are having. Consciously awakening and reconnecting to yourself with these tools and strategies will help you to begin a journey of acceptance, forgiveness, and gratitude. Thank you anger! I ended up having a great day!


Darren Weissman is a doctor of chiropractic and alternative medicine. The creator of the LifeLine Technique and author of The Power of Infinite Love and Gratitude, he has studied healing methodologies all around the world and presented at two World Congresses of Alternative Medicine. His practice is in Chicago. For information infiniteloveandgratitude.com

 

Labyrinths - transformational paths to inner and outer peace

by Cate Montana

As an archetypal symbol, the labyrinth is nearly unique in that its concept can be constructed as a dimensional form. Walking the twists and turns of a labyrinth's pathways allows the walker to embody not only the form but also the nature of the symbol with its spiraling and bewildering, yet inexorable, progress toward an unseen goal.

Kimberly Lowelle Saward

As a student working on her Ph.D. in Psychology at the Institute of Imaginal Studies in San Francisco, Kimberly Lowelle discovered the labyrinths at Grace Cathedral while exploring the city with a fellow student. Not expecting much, they both walked the labyrinth along with other visitors to the Cathedral that day. It was a simple act: walk, follow the path. No thought or choices involved. Just walk, follow the path. She did, and it changed her life.

Not sure at first even why, Kimberly returned to the labyrinth every two weeks for over two years to retrace her steps and meet, head-on, the unfolding mystery that was having such a profound influence in her life. Walking the labyrinth was calming and expansive. She brought to it her troubles, her thoughts, her patient's problems, her student pressures, her dreams and meditatively walked the eleven-circuit pathway over and over again.

Labyrinths, their meaning, their history, their psychological affects and potential modern applications became an intense focus. When a month-long labyrinth tour to England and Europe showed up, she jumped at the chance to go. Even though the cost and the timing were monumental blocks, she just walked the path and trusted it would all work out.

The money showed up, her schedule expanded and she went to Europe. On the tour she met Jeffrey Saward, the world's foremost authority on the history of labyrinths. Their mutual passion for labyrinths grew into a long-distance friendship, which blossomed into love. After adding Saward to her name, Kimberly finished her dissertation, Ariadne's Thread: The Transformative Potentials of Labyrinth Walking, wrapped up her clinical counseling practice in San Francisco and moved to England. Now she spends her time with her husband escorting people on tours to study ancient labyrinths, mazes and sacred sites around the world, and is working with him on the 35th Edition of Caerdroia: the Journal of Mazes and Labyrinths. She is currently the President of The Labyrinth Society based in England.

She walked the path. Her focus unfolded as her life.

Transformational tool from the past

The oldest, definitively dated labyrinth in existence today was carved onto a clay tablet about 4,000 years ago, and was found in Southern Greece. The original form contains seven circuits, or rings, and is called the classical or Cretan labyrinth. Although there are hundreds of examples of this classical labyrinth scattered throughout Europe, Asia, India and North America, carved on rocks, mounded into earthen pathways, painted on walls and reproduced on tablets and in tombs, no one knows where the original design came from.


Stone labyrinth on an island in Arctic Russia.
Photo by Jeffrey Saward


"When you look at prehistoric rock art in Europe, one of the common things that occurs in Neolithic rock art are what are commonly called cup and ring carvings - concentric circles often with a dot at the center, sometimes with a line drawn through them," says Jeffrey Saward. "It's not too difficult to create a labyrinth from a series of concentric circles. But it's such a precise symbol that, you know, there's no argument about whether it is one or isn't one. But equally it's one of those things that could have been discovered by one person by chance doodling. And they suddenly went, "Hey, that's a great idea," and showed it to a few friends who showed it to a few friends. The fact that the earliest ones we know are alongside and part of panels of prehistoric rock art in southern Europe would suggest that's where the origin comes from."

The more you understand about labyrinths, the more difficult it is to imagine that the design simply "happened." Although simple to look at, drawing a labyrinth takes some effort until the basic technique is mastered, and it can really only be properly derived through the use of a grid system often referred to as "magic squares." This same mathematical system is used to lay out complex mandalas.

"The classical labyrinth is a pretty phenomenal pattern," says Richard Feather Anderson, architect, founder of The American School of Geomancy, and a Feng Shui consultant in the US. "The magic squares are there as the grid on all the cosmological mandalas, and these mandalas are trying to explain how creation occurs constantly - not the Big Bang, but all creation - how you go from an intention to a manifestation."

Anderson hypothesizes that because mandalas, including the classical labyrinth, are based upon a cosmological underlying pattern of creation - or at least a pattern that humans use to explain the process of creation - that very creative things happen when a person walks the labyrinth: insights occur, sudden connections are seen, new ideas pop in, old patterns are broken.

Anderson, who designed the 11-circuit Chartres labyrinth at Grace Cathedral that Kimberly walked, has studied labyrinths for decades. He correlates the labyrinth's weaving, zigzag pattern to sacred geometry and the lightning bolt pattern of creation found in the Kabbalist Tree of Life. "All of the patterns and all of the processes of all of the forces, archetypes and symbols of our entire universe are packed into that thing, he says. "I think that this seven-circuit, ancient classic labyrinth is a temple that can awaken the Peace Maker within."

No matter where it comes from, no matter what its original intended purpose, few people dispute the labyrinth's subtle, yet powerful effects. Kimberly used the labyrinth in her clinical practice as a prescription for calming patient's anxiety. Some progressive schools around the world have painted labyrinth patterns into playgrounds and courtyards and permit students to walk the labyrinth before tests and exams. Edgar Cayce's Association for Research and Enlightenment has a 48 foot diameter classical labyrinth painted on the courtyard outside of the original Edgar Cayce Hospital. Numerous alternative health clinics and churches around the world have incorporated the use of labyrinths into their programs.

"When you're walking a labyrinth, whether you're doing it with your fingers or doing it with your whole body - even if you're just doing it with your eyes - you cross a threshold and you're in a place where you can more easily attend to your imaginal states," says Kimberley. "Also, as you're walking a labyrinth, whether you're doing it with your hands your eyes or your whole body, there's a rocking motion to it, a rhythmic motion which I think is rather soothing. And I think that is part of the reason people respond to it so well. There's this gentle movement." Anderson concurs. In fact, he says, labyrinths shouldn't just be walked - they should be run - as is common in Europe. By running around the sharp curves in the pattern, the rocking motion of the body increases. And rocking, he points out, is the first thing any adult does to soothe and calm a troubled baby. Indeed, running is the way almost every child intuitively approaches a labyrinth...an action both Kimberley and Anderson agree is worth paying attention to. "Kids know exactly what to do with a labyrinth," says Kimberly. "Kids oftentimes report back, 'Yeah, it kinda let me be with myself.'"

"You'd be amazed at what comes out of the mouth of little children that run the labyrinth," laughs Anderson. "They come out spouting things that sound like they're from the Upanishads."

Bottom line, walking or running a labyrinth can be an effective tool for personal growth and change.

"The Labyrinth is the only device I know which is assessable to anybody," says Anderson. "Here's a meditation practice that can lead people into a calm, centered, focused, here-and-now awareness without having to have decades of practice."

Flexibility, accessibility, mystery, simplicity, effectiveness, fun - whatever it is, for over 4,000 years people have been using labyrinths. And now their popularity is on the rise.

"People are simply drawn to it," says Kimberly. "It really seems to connect us to mystery and to the Divine, however we define it. And it connects us to the fruitfulness of our own imagination. If we can enter into that, and just be invited directly into prayer; if prayer is the path we elect to take in our lives ... then wow. What a wonderful thing."

 








   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


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